Love and Forgiveness: Luke 7:36-50


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One event that has always fascinated me in the gospels is the story of Mary anointing Jesus’ feet. Each of the four gospels includes a story describing an event like this. However, while Matthew, Mark, and John frame this event as one leading up to Jesus’ death on the cross, Luke’s gospel includes it early on, and Luke’s gospel draws out a parable Jesus shares at this event.

Because Luke’s gospel is so unique in the details and timing of this event and because Luke’s gospel doesn’t give the woman a name, part of me wonders if Jesus was anointed more than one time during His ministry.

Let’s read about what happened and about the parable Jesus shared during this event. Our passage is found in Luke’s gospel, chapter 7, and we will read it from the New International Version of the Bible. Starting in verse 36, Luke tells us that:

36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.

39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.”

40 Jesus answered him, “Simon, I have something to tell you.”

“Tell me, teacher,” he said.

41 “Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”

43 Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.”

“You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.

44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

48 Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”

49 The other guests began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?”

50 Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”

As I read this event just now, the parable didn’t stand out to me as much as the unnamed woman’s desire. In Jesus’ description of the woman’s actions, we could understand her motives to be one seeking salvation and forgiveness through her actions, or we could understand her motives as desiring some type of confirmation or affirmation that her past life of sin has been forgiven.

In the simple parable Jesus shared, forgiveness is a primary theme. However, is it possible to tell the woman’s motivation through this event? In my own mind, I think we can, especially if we are simply choosing between a works-based desire for salvation versus simply affirming God’s forgiveness.

The way I see this woman’s actions, everything we see described about her gives the impression she was humbly coming to serve Jesus. While this doesn’t sound significant at first, this is the key identifier for determining this woman’s motives. The motives of someone coming to Jesus with a works-based attitude would be more interested in building Jesus up, defending Him against His accusers, or doing something similar. While none of these actions are bad, they have more vagueness surrounding their motives.

In contrast, everything described about this woman is that she came seeking forgiveness and that she wouldn’t leave until she had received some type of confirmation that she was forgiven. This woman’s offering to Jesus was the best she had and Jesus honored her gift by affirming her forgiveness in God’s eyes.

If this event does not describe Mary anointing Jesus’ feet leading up to His crucifixion, then we know almost nothing about this woman except that she had a negative reputation before this point, that she anointed Jesus’ feet with perfume and her tears, and that Jesus tells her that her sins are forgiven.

However, in Jesus’ parable, we see an amazing idea that Jesus touches on afterwards. In Jesus’ parable, two unequal debts are forgiven. While Jesus calls the feelings that each forgiven person felt using the word love, we likely would focus the word more towards the idea of gratitude and thankfulness, which are types of love.

In this parable, Jesus connects the concept of forgiveness and love and this connection is worth paying attention to. Before turning to the woman to directly affirm her forgiveness, Jesus finishes His message to Simon by saying in verse 47, “Her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.

Jesus tells us that how loving we are to others shows how forgiven we are. When we are only forgiven a little, we only love a little, and when we see ourselves as being forgiven of a lot, then we will love a lot.

The last words Jesus shares are interesting. Jesus tells us that “whoever has been forgiven little loves little.

This is incredibly true, but it is a completely subjective idea that is based entirely on our perception. The truth of our human condition is that even one seemingly insignificant sin in our life is enough to rip our connection with God apart and distance us so far apart from God that it is impossible for us to return. While this sounds extreme, this perspective is the only one we should have when understanding God’s forgiveness.

Our sin is so significant in God’s eyes that Jesus needed to give up His life in order for God to demonstrate both justice and mercy. The littlest, least significant sin, gives us the gift of the death penalty, and through what Jesus did on the cross, we are given our lives back. Jesus’ gift pardons us from receiving the death penalty, and that is how forgiven we truly are.

The more we realize how sin-stained we are, the more we can appreciate what Jesus did for us on the cross and the gift of forgiveness He offers us. The way we show we are forgiven is by loving and forgiving each other.

As we move forward through life together, let’s intentionally be more forgiving towards each other as our way of saying thanks to God for how greatly He has forgiven us.

As we come to the end of another podcast episode, here are the challenges I will leave you with:

As I always open these challenges by saying, continue to seek God first in your life and take a moment to think about what He has truly forgiven you of. While your past might not be as bad as someone else’s past, I’m willing to bet that if you are anything like me, there are plenty of ways you have messed up and failed God. God has forgiven you because He loves you. Will we recognize how greatly He has forgiven us and reflect His forgiveness to others through our love?

Also, continue praying and studying the Bible for yourself to keep your personal relationship and connection with God strong. Don’t let anyone get between you and God, and filter everything you study through the lens of what God teaches you through His Word, the Bible.

And as I end every set of challenges by saying in one way or another, never stop short of, back away from, or chicken out of where God wants to lead you to in your life with Him!

Year of Parables – Episode 5: At a meal with Simon, a Pharisee, Jesus is interrupted by a woman seeking something significant. While this woman had a very negative reputation, discover what this event teaches us about love, about forgiveness, and about how these two ideas are connected in what Jesus did for humanity.

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Misunderstanding a Metaphor: Matthew 16:5-12

Focus Passage: Matthew 16:5-12 (NCV)

Jesus’ followers went across the lake, but they had forgotten to bring bread. Jesus said to them, “Be careful! Beware of the yeast of the Pharisees and the Sadducees.”

His followers discussed the meaning of this, saying, “He said this because we forgot to bring bread.”

Knowing what they were talking about, Jesus asked them, “Why are you talking about not having bread? Your faith is small. Do you still not understand? Remember the five loaves of bread that fed the five thousand? And remember that you filled many baskets with the leftovers? 10 Or the seven loaves of bread that fed the four thousand and the many baskets you filled then also? 11 I was not talking to you about bread. Why don’t you understand that? I am telling you to beware of the yeast of the Pharisees and the Sadducees.” 12 Then the followers understood that Jesus was not telling them to beware of the yeast used in bread but to beware of the teaching of the Pharisees and the Sadducees.

Read Matthew 16:5-12 in context and/or in other translations on BibleGateway.com!

During one of the many times that Jesus and His disciples crossed the lake, the disciples forgot to bring bread with them. While this probably already irritated the disciples enough, since they may have been hungry, an interesting conversation takes place. This conversation highlights one big challenge we all face in human nature.

In my imagination, probably about half way across the lake, the disciples realize they had forgotten bread. At about this very moment, Jesus gets their attention to say, “Be careful! Beware of the yeast of the Pharisees and the Sadducees.” (v. 6)

While it is pretty clear to us that Jesus is speaking in a metaphor about something that is below the surface, the disciples didn’t catch this at first. The disciples did grasp that there was something more to Jesus’ words, because they started talking amongst themselves about what this phrase meant. It seems like they concluded by coming to what must have been the plainest, most surface-level, rational answer they could imagine in their moment of hunger: “He said this because we forgot to bring bread.” (v. 7)

The disciples might have also came up with the thought that if they saw a Pharisee or Sadducee merchant (which would be unlikely) selling yeast, or even one of these two groups of people giving yeast away, then they shouldn’t even consider getting any from them.

However, we know from how Matthew frames this event that Jesus is speaking with a simple metaphor: yeast equals something else. The context for the statement and the frame of mind of the listener both matter. Had there been an abundance of bread on this trip, the disciples may have realized that Jesus was speaking about something not directly related to bread.

It is the same for us when we communicate. For us to communicate without the message being lost when it reaches the listener’s ears, we must pay attention to the context. Otherwise, when we are trying to share a metaphor to help people remember a concept, they could be too focused on taking it literally.

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Communicating While Silent: Luke 1:57-80

Focus Passage: Luke 1:57-80 (NIrV)

57 The time came for Elizabeth to have her baby. She gave birth to a son. 58 Her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had been very kind to her. They shared her joy.

59 On the eighth day, they came to have the child circumcised. They were going to name him Zechariah, like his father. 60 But his mother spoke up. “No!” she said. “He must be called John.”

61 They said to her, “No one among your relatives has that name.”

62 Then they motioned to his father. They wanted to find out what he would like to name the child. 63 He asked for something to write on. Then he wrote, “His name is John.” Everyone was amazed. 64 Right away Zechariah could speak again. Right away he praised God. 65 All his neighbors were filled with fear and wonder. Throughout Judea’s hill country, people were talking about all these things. 66 Everyone who heard this wondered about it. And because the Lord was with John, they asked, “What is this child going to be?”

67 John’s father Zechariah was filled with the Holy Spirit. He prophesied,

68 “Give praise to the Lord, the God of Israel!
    He has come to his people and purchased their freedom.
69 He has acted with great power and has saved us.
    He did it for those who are from the family line of his servant David.
70 Long ago holy prophets said he would do it.
71 He has saved us from our enemies.
    We are rescued from all who hate us.
72 He has been kind to our people of long ago.
    He has remembered his holy covenant.
73     He made a promise to our father Abraham.
74 He promised to save us from our enemies.
    Then we could serve him without fear.
75     He wants us to be holy and godly as long as we live.

76 “And you, my child, will be called a prophet of the Most High God.
    You will go ahead of the Lord to prepare the way for him.
77 You will tell his people how they can be saved.
    You will tell them that their sins can be forgiven.
78 All of that will happen because our God is tender and caring.
    His kindness will bring the rising sun to us from heaven.
79 It will shine on those living in darkness
    and in the shadow of death.
It will guide our feet on the path of peace.”

80 The child grew up, and his spirit became strong. He lived in the desert until he appeared openly to Israel.

Read Luke 1:57-80 in context and/or in other translations on BibleGateway.com!

In this passage, I am impressed with what is implied from what happened. While Luke begins by drawing our attention onto Zechariah’s doubt and subsequent muteness, in this passage, by the time Elizabeth gives birth, it would seem that Zechariah has a restored faith in God, and a restored obedience to the angel’s instruction.

While he was mute, Zechariah would have written out what He wanted to communicate with his wife and family. This would have included his desire for the child to be named John. Zechariah and Elizabeth probably had this discussion on the child’s name, and they both had agreed what the child’s name would be.

We don’t have any idea if the baby’s name was communicated outside of the couple, but if it had been, in the excitement of the birth, the relatives and neighbors got caught up with a different idea: Name the baby after his father Zechariah.

In many ways this is a compliment to Zechariah. By naming the child after the father, these relatives sent the message that they wanted the child to continue with the father’s legacy, and to become every bit of the man the father had become. Their desire was to compliment Zechariah by suggesting that his son be named after him.

Here’s how Luke describes what happened, “On the eighth day, they came to have the child circumcised. They were going to name him Zechariah, like his father. But his mother spoke up. ‘No!’ she said. ‘He must be called John.’” (v. 59-60)

However, their response was, “No one among your relatives has that name.” (v. 61)

Perhaps because they believed Zechariah’s opinions to be closer to theirs, or maybe because they wanted to draw out what could have been a disagreement between Zechariah and Elizabeth, they motion to Zechariah to come over. They wanted him to break this tie. While the relatives ultimately had no say over what the child’s name would be, they didn’t want it to be a name that wasn’t already in the family. They hoped that Zechariah would side with them, but when given something to write on, he wrote, “His name is John.” (v. 63)

In these four words we uncover Zechariah and Elizabeth’s marriage. While it likely had been strained because of his muteness, Zechariah had moved past his failures of faith and focused his attention on helping with a smooth pregnancy. In these four words, we discover that Zechariah and Elizabeth had communicated, and in spite of Zechariah’s temporary disability, they had kept their marriage strong while things were likely very stressful.

In John’s birth, we see a glimpse into the sort of marriage that Zechariah and Elizabeth had, and a glimpse into the man Zechariah had become. Zechariah focused on communicating during a difficult time and that communication paid off during John’s birth when their relatives had a different name in mind.

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Flashback Episode — Jesus’ Gift to Us: John 2:1-12


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As we continue moving into John’s gospel, looking at the events John included, our attention is turned onto the first miracle Jesus did. Many things about this event are fascinating, especially the faith involved in this event, but faith isn’t the only big factor that amazes me. In this miracle are several layers of foreshadowing that I suspect many people miss when they read it.

So with that said, let’s read what happened, and discover some amazing things hidden within Jesus’ first miracle. Our passage is found in John’s gospel, chapter 2, and we will read from the God’s Word translation. Starting in verse 1, John tells us that:

Three days later a wedding took place in the city of Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there. Jesus and his disciples had been invited too.

When the wine was gone, Jesus’ mother said to him, “They’re out of wine.”

Jesus said to her, “Why did you come to me? My time has not yet come.”

His mother told the servers, “Do whatever he tells you.”

Six stone water jars were there. They were used for Jewish purification rituals. Each jar held 18 to 27 gallons.

Jesus told the servers, “Fill the jars with water.” The servers filled the jars to the brim. Jesus said to them, “Pour some, and take it to the person in charge.” The servers did as they were told.

The person in charge tasted the water that had become wine. He didn’t know where it had come from, although the servers who had poured the water knew. The person in charge called the groom 10 and said to him, “Everyone serves the best wine first. When people are drunk, the host serves cheap wine. But you have saved the best wine for now.”

11 Cana in Galilee was the place where Jesus began to perform miracles. He made his glory public there, and his disciples believed in him.

12 After this, Jesus, his mother, brothers, and disciples went to the city of Capernaum and stayed there for a few days.

Every time I read this event, I am amazed that the disciples and the servants were the only ones who knew a miracle took place. In other words, Jesus’ mother, who made the request didn’t know what happened, and the host and groom both didn’t know what happened. To the majority of the guests, this event appeared to temporarily run out of wine, but then more wine showed up. There was a problem, and the problem was resolved.

This miracle is prompted because the servants had enough faith to obey Jesus’ ridiculous sounding request to serve the host water. The servants’ faith in Jesus, not knowing who Jesus even was, opened the door for this miracle!

We could also look at the disciples and the servants and picture them as the least important people at this event. Since this was a wedding Jesus’ mother was involved in, it was likely that it was a wedding of one of Jesus’ family members. In this event, we have no idea who the bride or groom was, but they were connected in some way with Jesus’ family. This would make the only people present who were not family members Jesus’ disciples and the servants. Those outside of the family saw the miracle, while those within the family remained somewhat oblivious.

This is interesting to note, because often times we don’t see God working in our hearts or our lives, but other people do. Other people are likely to see a greater change in our lives when we come to God or begin moving towards Him than we do. This isn’t bad, it is just something we should be aware of.

Another thing that stood out to me while reading this event is that the water pots were used for purification rituals. Since John chose to include this detail, I suspect he believed it to be significant for us to know. Part of me wonders if this detail helps draw our attention onto Jesus’ gift purifying us as believers and followers of Him. When Jesus gave Himself for us, His life purifies ours and we are able to stand before God because of what Jesus accomplished for us.

This detail leads us into two amazing layers of foreshadowing I believe this miracle and event includes.

The first layer of foreshadowing is looking forward to what would happen at another significant meal Jesus and His disciples ate together. On the night Jesus was arrested leading up to His crucifixion, Jesus ate what Christians around the world call the Last Supper on Passover weekend. During this Passover meal, Jesus takes bread and wine and connects these things symbolically with His body and His blood.

Jesus’ blood, represented by the wine, represents Jesus’ life. Drawing this connection back to our event for this episode, we see that Jesus supplies His life to solve a problem we are unable to solve. The wine in this event had run out, which symbolically represents that we had done everything we knew to do without being able to solve our big problem (in this context, our biggest problem is sin). To step in with a solution, Jesus provides wine, which represents His life, and it is a wine that is better than either the host or groom had experienced before. Jesus’ life defeated sin, solving the biggest problem we face, and when we accept Jesus’ life in exchange for ours, we get to experience eternal life when we deserved eternal death because of our sin.

The second layer of foreshadowing looks towards the great “wedding” feast we will experience following Jesus’ return. After Jesus returns, we will get to enjoy the wedding supper between Jesus and His bride, which represents His church.

Whenever I see a wedding event in the Bible, I look to see if there is any connection with the wedding feast that all God’s people will experience when Jesus returns to bring us home. In this miracle, I see a profound connection. The only way this future wedding will happen is because of Jesus supplying the wine, which represents His life, for His bride. Without Jesus’ life, there would be no future wedding. The amazing, subtle foreshadowing in this first miracle is that Jesus supplies His life in order for His people to be able to experience the wedding God has been looking forward to since the beginning of time.

Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection solved the sin problem. Jesus supplied His life in exchange for ours. It is now up to us to accept Jesus’ gift and His invitation to substitute His life for ours.

As we come to the end of another podcast episode, here are the challenges I will leave you with:

As I always challenge you to do, continue seeking God first in your life and choose to accept the gift He offers to you through Jesus’ life and sacrifice. Jesus supplied what we need to solve the sin problem in our own lives, and it is up to us to lean on Jesus’ life for strength to overcome sin in this life. We do this best by focusing on Jesus and intentionally growing towards Him.

Also, continue praying and studying the Bible for yourself to learn, grow, and mature towards God. Through prayer and Bible study, discover just how much God loves us through what Jesus did for all of us. Discover how sin is something we never asked for personally, but it is something God was willing to solve for us because He loves us more than we might realize!

And as I end every set of challenges by saying in one way or another, never stop short of, back away from, chicken out of, or give up on where God wants to lead you to in your life with Him!

Flashback Episode: Year in John – Episode 4: When Jesus and His disciples were invited to a wedding early on in His ministry, discover in His first official miracle and amazing gift He offers to every believer, disciple, and follower through all of history.