Help in Times of Need: Matthew 15:21-39

As we move through Matthew’s gospel, we come to two events that I am having a difficult time choosing between. One event is an example of Jesus being very different from how we usually see Jesus, while the other event seems similar to one of our previous events, but it has a few details that are significant to pay attention to.

Because of this, I’m not going to pick. Instead, let’s read this passage and both of these events. Our passage is found in Matthew’s gospel, chapter 15, and we will read from the New Living Translation. Starting in verse 21, Matthew tells us:

²¹ Then Jesus left Galilee and went north to the region of Tyre and Sidon. ²² A Gentile woman who lived there came to him, pleading, “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David! For my daughter is possessed by a demon that torments her severely.”

²³ But Jesus gave her no reply, not even a word. Then his disciples urged him to send her away. “Tell her to go away,” they said. “She is bothering us with all her begging.”

²⁴ Then Jesus said to the woman, “I was sent only to help God’s lost sheep—the people of Israel.”

²⁵ But she came and worshiped him, pleading again, “Lord, help me!”

²⁶ Jesus responded, “It isn’t right to take food from the children and throw it to the dogs.”

²⁷ She replied, “That’s true, Lord, but even dogs are allowed to eat the scraps that fall beneath their masters’ table.”

²⁸ “Dear woman,” Jesus said to her, “your faith is great. Your request is granted.” And her daughter was instantly healed.

Let’s pause reading here, at the end of this first event, because what Matthew includes for us is amazing. While many people focus in on Jesus and how His comments are insensitive towards the woman, I want us to focus for a moment on how Jesus’ actions don’t match Jesus’ words at the beginning of this event.

In verse 21, Matthew tells us that “Jesus left Galilee and went north to the region of Tyre and Sidon.” Jesus makes this trip away from Galilee to the region of Tyre and Sidon which are close to the Mediterranean Sea. While He and the disciples are in Tyre and Sidon, we only have one event recorded for this trip, which is what this first part of our passage focuses in on.

While I think other gospels allude to other people being healed, the miracle that takes center stage is the one Matthew focuses in on in our passage. The interesting idea that I want us to pay attention to is that while Jesus tells the woman, “I was sent only to help God’s lost sheep—the people of Israel,” Jesus made the trip all the way to the region and city where this woman lived like He traveled there to help only her.

I think that the details in this event point to Jesus challenging the disciples with the lesson that God will sometimes call us to help people who are not like us, and we should help people who ask for help regardless of what they look like and regardless of what our preconceived ideas and stereotypes are.

Following Matthew including this miracle, Jesus leaves that region and returns to Galilee. Picking back up in verse 29, Matthew writes:

²⁹ Jesus returned to the Sea of Galilee and climbed a hill and sat down. ³⁰ A vast crowd brought to him people who were lame, blind, crippled, those who couldn’t speak, and many others. They laid them before Jesus, and he healed them all. ³¹ The crowd was amazed! Those who hadn’t been able to speak were talking, the crippled were made well, the lame were walking, and the blind could see again! And they praised the God of Israel.

³² Then Jesus called his disciples and told them, “I feel sorry for these people. They have been here with me for three days, and they have nothing left to eat. I don’t want to send them away hungry, or they will faint along the way.”

³³ The disciples replied, “Where would we get enough food here in the wilderness for such a huge crowd?”

³⁴ Jesus asked, “How much bread do you have?”

They replied, “Seven loaves, and a few small fish.”

³⁵ So Jesus told all the people to sit down on the ground. ³⁶ Then he took the seven loaves and the fish, thanked God for them, and broke them into pieces. He gave them to the disciples, who distributed the food to the crowd.

³⁷ They all ate as much as they wanted. Afterward, the disciples picked up seven large baskets of leftover food. ³⁸ There were 4,000 men who were fed that day, in addition to all the women and children. ³⁹ Then Jesus sent the people home, and he got into a boat and crossed over to the region of Magadan.

In the second event of our passage, we discover another miracle of food multiplication, this time taking seven loaves and a few small fish and turning it into a meal for over 4,000 people. Most people see the similarities between the miracle of feeding 5,000 and feeding 4,000, but each event includes a key difference that makes each event uniquely powerful and distinct. This detail is where the food came from that was eventually multiplied. With the earlier miracle where Jesus fed over 5,000 people, the food came from one of the people in the crowd, specifically from a boy offering his food to Jesus. This later miracle of feeding over 4,000 has the food coming from the disciples own food reserves.

This distinction is important for us to pay attention to. This distinction tells us that sometimes God will send us the supplies we need to help others from someone or somewhere else. However, sometimes God challenges us to supply what is needed for a miracle to happen. The earlier miracle happened because of a boy’s gift of food. This later miracle happened because the disciples gave up what they had left for themselves.

As we look at Jesus traveling to heal a Samaritan woman’s daughter and Jesus feeding a large crowd in a wilderness, we have a shared underlying theme that we can place our trust, our faith, our hope, and our belief in Jesus, who is more than willing to help us when we need help.

Jesus traveled to the region of Tyre and Sidon to heal this woman’s daughter, and He traveled to Galilee to heal and help thousands of others. Jesus also knew that after three days, the crowd had chosen staying with Him over leaving and getting food, and the crowd’s need prompts Jesus to give them one more amazing miracle.

God is willing to help us when we need help, and while sometimes He is waiting for us to ask, and push past a few challenges, other times, He is more than willing to supply what we need without us even needing to open our mouths to pray.

As we come to the end of another podcast episode, here are the challenges I will leave you with:

As I always challenge you to do, be sure to seek God first in your life. Intentionally place your faith, hope, trust, and belief in Jesus. Move into your life claiming God’s promise that He will help you when you need and ask for help. God is more than willing to supply us with what we need, and when He does, remember to show Him gratitude and say thank You for the blessings He has given to us.

Also, continue praying and studying the Bible for yourself to grow your personal relationship with God stronger. Discover through your own study time what God wants to teach you, and while other people may have good things to say, never let your relationship with God become dependent on anyone else’s relationship with Him.

And as I end every set of challenges by saying in one way or another, never stop short of, back away from, chicken out of, or walk away from where God wants to lead you to in your life with Him!