The Key to Love: John 14:15-31

Focus Passage: John 14:15-31 (GW)

15 “If you love me, you will obey my commandments. 16 I will ask the Father, and he will give you another helper who will be with you forever. 17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn’t see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.

18 “I will not leave you all alone. I will come back to you. 19 In a little while the world will no longer see me, but you will see me. You will live because I live. 20 On that day you will know that I am in my Father and that you are in me and that I am in you. 21 Whoever knows and obeys my commandments is the person who loves me. Those who love me will have my Father’s love, and I, too, will love them and show myself to them.”

22 Judas (not Iscariot) asked Jesus, “Lord, what has happened that you are going to reveal yourself to us and not to the world?”

23 Jesus answered him, “Those who love me will do what I say. My Father will love them, and we will go to them and make our home with them. 24 A person who doesn’t love me doesn’t do what I say. I don’t make up what you hear me say. What I say comes from the Father who sent me.

25 “I have told you this while I’m still with you. 26 However, the helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything. He will remind you of everything that I have ever told you.

27 “I’m leaving you peace. I’m giving you my peace. I don’t give you the kind of peace that the world gives. So don’t be troubled or cowardly. 28 You heard me tell you, ‘I’m going away, but I’m coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I’m going to the Father, because the Father is greater than I am.

29 “I’m telling you this now before it happens. When it does happen, you will believe. 30 The ruler of this world has no power over me. But he’s coming, so I won’t talk with you much longer. 31 However, I want the world to know that I love the Father and that I am doing exactly what the Father has commanded me to do. Get up! We have to leave.”

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Have you ever wondered how you can show God love? Since God is not physically present and touchable like a person is, any relationship we have with Him, or affection we show Him, will likely be a little different than it is with our significant other. Or is it really all that different?

Many people believe that in order to show God love, we must love others – including orphans, widows, hospital patients, prison inmates, and, or maybe even especially, those who are the lowest in society and those who cannot help themselves. I am among those who agree with this description – and I stand on the foundation of several prominent parables/teachings that Jesus shares in the gospels.

However, in our passage for this journal entry, Jesus gives us a clear, direct answer to this question, and it might surprise you. While what has been believed is not wrong, it is only a partial truth.

In verse 21, Jesus says, “Whoever knows and obeys my commandments is the person who loves me. Those who love me will have my Father’s love, and I, too, will love them and show myself to them.”

This must be an easy thing, since just one chapter before, Jesus gave the disciples a new command: “I’m giving you a new commandment: Love each other in the same way that I have loved you. Everyone will know that you are my disciples because of your love for each other.” (John 13:34-35)

But it isn’t that simple. Jesus describes in our first verse (John 14:21) commandments that are plural, and in the prior chapter’s two verses (John 13:34-35), He tells us that is a “new” command. Jesus isn’t replacing any commandments; He is adding to them.

What commandments is He “adding” to? Jesus is most likely referencing the Ten Commandments in these verses, which God spoke to the Israelites from Mount Sinai in Exodus, chapter 20.

There are parallels to how John opens His gospel talking about Jesus being God that could be understood as referring back to Mount Sinai and Jesus as the One who spoke God’s Law; but even if this wasn’t the case, Jesus came as a Representative of the Godhead, and when He says “My commandments”, it is just as true to refer to the Ten Commandments which were spoken from Mount Sinai by the Godhead.

This means that when Jesus talks about obeying His commandments, He must be referring to all eleven – both the original ten as well as the extra “new” commandment He gave to the disciples.

Let’s look back at our original verse, “Whoever knows and obeys my commandments is the person who loves me. Those who love me will have my Father’s love, and I, too, will love them and show myself to them.”

Jesus clearly states obedience is the way we show our love to Him. He did command that we love others, and that we love people who are in need, but that is only one commandment out of eleven – specifically the bonus one. It’s good to get the bonus answer right, but it doesn’t mean much if the rest of the test answers are wrong.

Jesus says that obedience leads to loving Him, and that loving Him will bring the Father’s love into our lives, and that Jesus will love us too and He will show Himself to us. It seems that all this talk about love hinges on obedience. In our physical relationships, if we love someone and they ask us to do something, do we choose to “obey” (i.e. answer their request) or not? Does how we respond/submit/obey say something about our love for the other person?

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