Flashback Episode — The Parable of the Patient Father: Luke 15:11-32


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In our last podcast episode, we focused in on two of Jesus’ more well-known parables of the lost sheep and the lost coin. For this episode, we will turn our attention onto the third parable in this set and spend a few minutes looking at the parable of the prodigal son.

As I have teased out, I believe this parable might warrant a slightly different name, and this is because this parable has more than one character. While this parable follows one son while he was away, it finishes by centering on another character.

Let’s read this parable and then draw out some big things we can learn from it. Our parable and passage for this episode is found in the gospel of Luke, chapter 15, and we will read from the New International Version of the Bible. Starting in verse 11:

11 Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. 12 The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them.

13 “Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

17 “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.

21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’

22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.

25 “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. 29 But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’

31 “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

From the opening line in this parable, to this parable’s closing words, the focus is not on the son who left, but on the father of these two boys. Jesus opened this parable in verse 11 by saying, “There was a man who had two sons.” Jesus concludes this parable with the father pleading with the older son to come and celebrate with him that the younger son has returned. Because the framing for this parable focuses more on the father and his response, we might be better served calling this parable the “Parable of the Patient Father”. This father shows an incredible amount of patience, love, and acceptance to the two extremes his sons go.

In this parable, we should best understand Jesus’ message by bringing back in the introduction verses Luke gave to open this set of three parables. All too often, this parable is pulled apart from the context Jesus shared, and it is too often looked at separately from the other two parables in this set. To help restore some of this context, let’s look at how Luke opens this set of parables in verses 1 and 2 of chapter 15. Luke tells us “Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus. But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, ‘This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.’

In our parable of the Patient Father, with Luke’s introduction in clear view, we begin to see the three main characters of this parable and who they are representing in Jesus’ mind. While the Father in this parable is understood to represent God, we have two groups of people present to represent the two sons. On one hand, we have a group of tax collectors and sinners who have gathered around Jesus to listen to Him, and we have a group of Pharisees and religious leaders who are muttering among themselves that Jesus would even associate with such people.

Looking at our parable, we have a son who is clearly sinful, who left and who then returned to the father, and we have a son who never left but who is bitter at seeing his brother return. With these two parable characters placed next to the two groups of people present who Jesus was speaking to, it becomes clear who each child represents. The sinful son who returned and who God celebrated are the tax collectors and sinners who gathered around Jesus, and the bitter older son is represented by the Pharisees and religious leaders.

In this parable, while Jesus frames this parable as a man having two sons, when we look at what these sons represent, I believe Jesus is sharing the two extremes. In an ideal parable, there would be three sons, and the third son is one who never left but who is also celebrating with the father because his brother returned.

However, this parable only gives us two options and I believe this is important.

When we focus our attention on the son who did not leave, we discover that this son, while he was now entitled to everything, he does not understand his father’s heart, he does not understand his brother’s transformation, and he does not understand his own failings. The older brother is blinded by an arrogant pride.

An arrogant pride is the biggest temptation for people who have been in the church for a long period of time and this arrogant pride is what ultimately formed in Lucifer’s heart. In a perfect heaven, Lucifer let pride and arrogance enter his heart and this ultimately lead to him being kicked out of heaven and becoming Satan. An arrogant pride looks down on others while ignoring one’s own faults.

In this parable, regardless of how long you have been in the church, never ally yourself with the older brother. While the older brother’s ultimate decision is left unshared, it is always better to realize that every single one of us has failed God. We all have sinned, and this makes us more like the younger brother who failed the Father but who ultimately returned.

When we fail God, let’s act like the younger brother and return to Him with a humble, repentant spirit, and reject anything and everything that looks like the older brother. The older brother’s attitude was that of the religious leaders, and the older brother’s attitude mirrors Satan’s attitude that looked down on others.

This parable focuses on how patient God is as the father of both sons, and let’s remember that while our lives are likely not going to be as extreme as either brother, we are best served by modeling the prodigal son’s return when we fail God rather than brushing over our faults like the older son did.

As we come to the end of another podcast episode, here are the challenges I will leave you with:

As I always begin by challenging you, continue to seek God first in your life. Choose to humbly return and repent when failing God and choose to model your return to God like the younger son who realized he had failed his father. Never ally yourself with the older son unless you are ultimately going to choose to celebrate with the father over your sinful brother’s return.

Also, continue to pray and study the Bible for yourself to grow closer to God and to let His Holy Spirit into your life. With the Holy Spirit in your heart, mind, and life, discover how He gives you the love you need to both return to God when making a mistake, and He gives you the love you need to accept others who choose to return to God as well. The Holy Spirit in our hearts, gives us God’s love we can use to bless others He sends into our lives.

And as I end every set of challenges by saying in one way or another, never stop short of, back away from, chicken out of, or reject where God wants to lead you to in your life with Him!

Flashback Episode: Year in Luke – Episode 31: While most people might refer to this parable as the Parable of the Prodigal Son, discover how it might be more deserving of a different title — specifically one that emphasizes the character of the father.

Slavery or Adoption: John 8:31-59

Focus Passage: John 8:31-59 (NIV)

31 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

33 They answered him, “We are Abraham’s descendants and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?”

34 Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35 Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37 I know that you are Abraham’s descendants. Yet you are looking for a way to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38 I am telling you what I have seen in the Father’s presence, and you are doing what you have heard from your father.”

39 “Abraham is our father,” they answered.

“If you were Abraham’s children,” said Jesus, “then you would do what Abraham did. 40 As it is, you are looking for a way to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41 You are doing the works of your own father.”

“We are not illegitimate children,” they protested. “The only Father we have is God himself.”

42 Jesus said to them, “If God were your Father, you would love me, for I have come here from God. I have not come on my own; God sent me. 43 Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44 You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45 Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46 Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don’t you believe me? 47 Whoever belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God.”

48 The Jews answered him, “Aren’t we right in saying that you are a Samaritan and demon-possessed?”

49 “I am not possessed by a demon,” said Jesus, “but I honor my Father and you dishonor me. 50 I am not seeking glory for myself; but there is one who seeks it, and he is the judge. 51 Very truly I tell you, whoever obeys my word will never see death.”

52 At this they exclaimed, “Now we know that you are demon-possessed! Abraham died and so did the prophets, yet you say that whoever obeys your word will never taste death. 53 Are you greater than our father Abraham? He died, and so did the prophets. Who do you think you are?”

54 Jesus replied, “If I glorify myself, my glory means nothing. My Father, whom you claim as your God, is the one who glorifies me. 55 Though you do not know him, I know him. If I said I did not, I would be a liar like you, but I do know him and obey his word. 56 Your father Abraham rejoiced at the thought of seeing my day; he saw it and was glad.”

57 “You are not yet fifty years old,” they said to him, “and you have seen Abraham!”

58 “Very truly I tell you,” Jesus answered, “before Abraham was born, I am!” 59 At this, they picked up stones to stone him, but Jesus hid himself, slipping away from the temple grounds.

Read John 8:31-59 in context and/or in other translations on BibleGateway.com!

Part way through Jesus’ ministry, as He was speaking to a crowd of Jews in the temple during a festival, Jesus shares a powerful statement about slavery and sin. John’s gospel includes this message Jesus shared, as well as some details the Jews might not have been ready to accept.

John tells us Jesus said, “Very truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (v. 34-36)

The first statement Jesus makes in these verses is profound: “everyone who sins is a slave to sin.” While we would like to think slavery is something that we are erasing from the world, perhaps it is something that is not possible to do while sin is present in the world. Jesus’ statement doesn’t leave any flexibility when it comes to freedom for someone who is actively sinning.

The next statement Jesus makes is powerful as well: “a slave has no permanent place in the family.” While this sounds cruel to think about, someone who is a slave or who has been hired to help in a home may develop close friendships with those in the family, but they are not a part of the family simply because they are present. In this second statement, Jesus is drawing a parallel that someone who sins is a slave and as a slave, he/she is not part of the family.

The third statement switches our perspective because Jesus then tells us: “a son belongs to it [the family] forever.” While Jesus is hinting at Himself as a member of the family, He is really setting the stage for former slaves being freed and adopted into His family. In the third statement, Jesus begins to give us hope that we are not always destined to be slaves to sin.

The last statement in these verses tell us: “if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” Jesus draws our attention now onto Himself being the original Son (or first Son, or eldest Son) in God’s family. This last statement is a promise that Jesus can free us from sin, and that He is willing to adopt us into God’s family where we are truly free.

But the catch we don’t often realize is that the freedom we are invited into when God adopts us is a freedom from sinful desires and from choosing sin. Jesus can set us free, and when He does, if we choose to return to a life of sin with our freedom then we essentially are telling God we reject His offer and would rather be a slave.

With God through Jesus, a sinless life is possible. This does not mean we live a life without mistakes, but it does mean we live a life where our thoughts and desires are focused on God and living as He directs. Living an entire life without sinning at some point is not possible for us, but focusing on Jesus and on living for Him can make our future lives sinless even if our future lives are not “mistakeless”. Living with Jesus in this way tells God we accept the adoption He offers us into His family.

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Staying Silent: Isaiah 53:7


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As we continue moving forward in our year looking at connecting points between Jesus’ life and the Old Testament, and prophecies that Jesus fulfilled while He was here on earth, we come to a prophecy that seems simple on the surface, while also being a prophecy that must have been overlooked or misunderstood for those living in the first century. Moving through the sequence of smaller events leading up to Jesus’ crucifixion, not only was the betrayal, oppression, and hostility predicted and foreshadowed, which we’ve focused some of our previous podcast episodes on, but so was Jesus’ response when He was accused.

Let’s read the verse that contains this prophecy. While I am tempted to read more of the chapter that this verse contains, the chapter itself is so powerful that it would be easy to let it derail us regarding this verse’s significance. However, don’t be surprised if we look back to this chapter filled with prophecy a few more times prior to the end of our year podcasting about Jesus’ life.

Our verse and prophecy for this episode is found in the Old Testament book of Isaiah, chapter 53, and we will read from the New American Standard Bible translation. In verse 7, Isaiah writes of the Messiah:

7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted,
Yet He did not open His mouth;
Like a lamb that is led to slaughter,
And like a sheep that is silent before its shearers,
So He did not open His mouth.

In this brief verse, we discover that the Messiah God would send, when He was being accused and condemned, would not open His mouth to respond. In an amazing way, while the gospels do include a small number of statements Jesus makes during His trial, and John’s gospel includes a short conversation Jesus has with Pilate, it appears as though the gospels emphasize Jesus’ preference for simply remaining silent.

In Mark’s gospel, chapter 14, starting in verse 53, we read what happened when Jesus was brought before the religious leaders. Mark tells us that:

53 They led Jesus away to the high priest; and all the chief priests and the elders and the scribes gathered together. 54 Peter had followed Him at a distance, right into the courtyard of the high priest; and he was sitting with the officers and warming himself at the fire. 55 Now the chief priests and the whole Council kept trying to obtain testimony against Jesus to put Him to death, and they were not finding any. 56 For many were giving false testimony against Him, but their testimony was not consistent. 57 Some stood up and began to give false testimony against Him, saying, 58 “We heard Him say, ‘I will destroy this temple made with hands, and in three days I will build another made without hands.’” 59 Not even in this respect was their testimony consistent. 60 The high priest stood up and came forward and questioned Jesus, saying, “Do You not answer? What is it that these men are testifying against You?” 61 But He kept silent and did not answer.

According to Mark’s gospel, Jesus stayed silent and did not answer the charges and false testimony that was being spoken about Him. Looking at the bigger narrative, it is only after the chief priest demands an answer in a way that Jesus could not stay silent that Jesus opens His mouth to speak. Oddly enough, if Jesus had stayed silent or acted mute for this entire event, I suspect that the religious leaders’ trial would have fallen completely apart, especially after what we just read in Mark’s gospel was happening during the point when Jesus was silent.

Moving forward, Mark’s gospel then describes Jesus’ trial before Pilate. Mark, chapter 15, opens in verse 1 by saying:

Early in the morning the chief priests with the elders and scribes and the whole Council, immediately held a consultation; and binding Jesus, they led Him away and delivered Him to Pilate. Pilate questioned Him, “Are You the King of the Jews?” And He answered him, “It is as you say.” The chief priests began to accuse Him harshly. Then Pilate questioned Him again, saying, “Do You not answer? See how many charges they bring against You!” But Jesus made no further answer; so Pilate was amazed.

It would seem according to Mark’s gospel, that Jesus preferred to stay silent than to speak. Even the answer Mark tells us Jesus gave Pilate is not much of an answer. Jesus’ response doesn’t deny Pilate’s assertion, but it also doesn’t really speak strongly in its favor. It is almost like Jesus responded with something like, “Those are your words” or “If that is what you would like to believe or claim.” However, after the religious leaders start accusing Jesus, Jesus stops talking and remains quiet.

Jumping over to Luke’s gospel, we discover that Pilate sent Jesus over to Herod, who also happened to be in Jerusalem at that time. In Luke’s gospel, chapter 23, starting in verse 8, Luke tells us that:

[Now] Herod was very glad when he saw Jesus; for he had wanted to see Him for a long time, because he had been hearing about Him and was hoping to see some sign performed by Him. And he questioned Him at some length; but He answered him nothing. 10 And the chief priests and the scribes were standing there, accusing Him vehemently. 11 And Herod with his soldiers, after treating Him with contempt and mocking Him, dressed Him in a gorgeous robe and sent Him back to Pilate.

In Luke’s description of this event, everyone present openly mocked and taunted Jesus while He stayed silent. Nothing Jesus could say would bring God glory, and nothing Jesus could do would fit better into God’s plan than simply staying silent.

In an amazing fulfillment of prophecy, while Satan used the religious leaders at every point in Jesus’ trial to push Jesus to speak, Jesus only truly spoke when He chose to, and the points in time where Jesus chose to speak that morning were few and far between.

It is interesting in my mind that Jesus would choose to stay silent. While staying silent when being accused does not technically admit guilt, one could logically conclude that it assumes guilt because it would be very easy to deny whatever accusation was claimed.

When Jesus stayed silent, He assumed our guilt without admitting to anything. If Jesus had cut through the accusations with the spoken word of truth, everything in the trials Jesus faced would be exposed as a fraud. Looking at every other challenge the religious leaders bring Jesus’ way prompts us to conclude that Jesus was perfectly capable of besting the logic and traps of the religious leaders. The only reason for Jesus to stay silent was because He actively chose to do so.

By staying silent, Jesus assumed our guilt on His journey to the cross. By dying the death He did not deserve, Jesus made redemption possible for those who choose to accept Jesus’ life in place of our own. For those who give up their lives in favor of Jesus’ life, He promises redemption and a home in a perfectly recreated New Heaven and New Earth where there won’t be any more pain, disease, sin, or even death.

Jesus stayed silent for you and for me, because His goal was making salvation possible for God’s people.

As we come to the end of another podcast episode, here are the challenges I will leave you with:

As I always open by challenging you, intentionally seek God first in your life and choose to place your hope, faith, trust, and belief in Jesus. Accept the gift of His life in exchange for yours, and let Him transform you from the inside as you move through life with Him.

Also, continue to pray and study the Bible for yourself to grow personally closer to God and to Jesus each and every day. While pastors, authors, speakers, or even podcasters have ideas to share, take everything you read, see, and hear and test these ideas against the truth found within the Bible. Within the Bible, discover a God who loves you more than you could possibly imagine.

And as I end every set of challenges by saying in one way or another, never stop short of, back away from, chicken out of, or give up on where God wants to lead you to in your life with Him!

Year of Prophecy – Episode 31: In a powerful verse tucked within a larger prophetic chapter, discover one characteristic of the Messiah that Jesus fulfilled in an amazing, virtually God-like way.

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Living with Secrets: Matthew 1:18-25

Focus Passage: Matthew 1:18-25 (NASB)

For this journal entry, we will look a little closer at one of the events in Jesus’ birth, and uncover a truth that I found especially interesting. This truth is hidden in plain sight, but it is easy to miss if you read this story without paying attention.

In verse 25 we read, “but [Joseph] kept her [Mary] a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus.

While Joseph had planned to send Mary away silently to not publicly disgrace her, an angel in a dream convinced him otherwise. We don’t know if their wedding was the next day, or if it happened at a future date, or if Jesus was conceived weeks or months before. If Mary raced off to be with Elizabeth for three months prior to her wedding, then it would be very possible that Jesus would have clearly appeared to have been conceived outside of marriage. However, if all this happened before or right around the same time with Joseph and Mary traveling to see Elizabeth and Zechariah immediately following their marriage (a.k.a. honeymoon), then it would have looked to outsiders that Jesus was a honeymoon baby.

We know from reading Matthew that Joseph kept Mary as a virgin until after Jesus was born – but to everyone else looking at the scene, it probably would have looked as though Jesus was Joseph’s son.

This is significant because often times in our own lives, each family has secrets that they don’t want to share and/or they don’t feel are either believable or relevant for others to know. Perhaps it is simply a countercultural choice that the couple has made that they don’t want to share for fear it will cause division, or perhaps it is a dark secret that has brought the family shame in the past and they would rather it be erased from their history.

At any rate, Joseph and Mary had an incredible and unbelievable family secret, and Joseph accepted the reality that it meant, and chose to raise Jesus as his own Son. Joseph stepped into the unbelievable, and became the earthly father to the Savior of the world. For us, we cannot change the past, but we can choose to accept the place we are currently at (including all the craziness present) and see it as a step towards moving forward into a better future.

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